Personality?

wez

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Hey Tori...I took the test you posted...I got INTJ again....I guess it's set in stone lol.

I forgot.. I was gonna tell her too.. and mine was the same.

It was better.. much fewer questions if I remember right.

 

wez

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****. I'm wez, hopefully minus the annoying parts.
You love me... deny it... I dare ya... ;)

Embrace your annoying parts.. that's where the fruit of happiness is.

 

wez

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Hey merc!.. here's one I haven't seen yet.. no sense in fighting it, eh?

I think you know how to be quite annoying... remember our little scuffle? hahahahaha ...

P.S. Banning me didn't make you right no matter how many people might of thought so.. "we" know better.. don't "we"? hahahaha... good times.. good times.. You know I luv ya.

ENFP -- The Charmer

Outgoing, personable, supremely confident -- and sometimes... well, just plain irritating, ENFPs love to be the center of attention. They thrive on admiration, feel most comfortable in the spotlight and love to entertain. Usually it works. ENFPs tend to have enough charm, passion and personality to keep the crowd happy. Their friends love to be with them and they love to be around friends -- it's when they're at their best. Their enthusiasm is inspiring and their vivacity can liven up any gathering. They're always welcome at a party.

But ENFPs can also be social butterflies. They live for the now, enjoying the relationships they have before being distracted by something new and forgetting what they had for months at a time. They can procrastinate and grow bored quickly. As long as they're entertained though, there are few people more fun to be around.

ENFP -- Extraverted iNtuitive Feeling Perceiving

ENFPs are the life and soul of the party. They're stuffed with personality, full of joie de vivre and know exactly how to have a good time. And that usually means a good time is being had by most... if not all.

 

wez

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Intj......

Hmmmmm... Interesting.. sigh :x

ENFPs as Lovers

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"To love means to open ourselves to the negative as well as the positive - to grief, sorrow, and disappointment as well as to joy, fulfillment, and an intensity of consciousness we did not know was possible before." -- Rollo May

ENFPs make warm, considerate, passionate partners who are generally willing, eager, and able to do whatever it takes to make The Relationship a positive place to be. They are enthusiastic, idealistic, focused on other people's feelings, and very flexible. These attributes combine to make them especially interested in positive personal relationships, and also makes them very able to promote strong relationships in fun and creative ways. ENFPs take their commitments very seriously, and are generally deeply loyal and faithful to their partners.

There are a couple of difficult relationship areas for the ENFP. The first problem is that many ENFPs have a problem leaving bad relationships. They tend to internalize any problems and take them on their own shoulders, believing that the success or failure of the relationship is their own responsibility. As perfectionists, they don't like to admit defeat, and will stick with bad situations long after they should have left. When they do leave the relationship, they will believe that the failure was their fault, and that there was surely something they could have done to save the relationship.

On the entirely other end of the spectrum, many ENFPs have a difficult time staying focused and following things through to completion. If they have not focused on their ability to follow through, they may have problems staying in dedicated, monogamous relationships. They are so in tune with all of the exciting possibilities of what could be, that they will always fantasize about a greener pasture out there somewhere. If they are not paired with a partner who enjoys new experiences, or who shares their idealistic enthusiasm, the ENFP may become bored. The ENFP who is bored and who is not focused will be very unhappy, and will eventually "leave" the relationship if the problem is not addressed.

Since relationships are central to the ENFP's life, they will be very "hands on" and involved with their intimate relationships. They may be in the habit of constantly asking their partner how they're doing, what they're feeling, etc. This behavior may be a bit smothering, but it also supports a strong awareness of the health (or illness) of the relationship.

Sexually, The ENFP is creative, perfectionistic, playful and affectionate. Their rich fantasy world makes them fun and creative lovers, who usually have new ideas up their sleeves. They whole-heartedly embrace the opportunity for closeness with their mates, believing sexual intimacy to be a positive, fun way to express how much you love each other.

The ENFP needs to be given positive assurance and affirmation. More than one ENFP has been known to "go fishing" for compliments. They like to hear from their significant others that they are loved and valued, and are willing and eager to return the favor. They enjoy lavishing love and affection on their mates, and are creative and energetic in their efforts to please. The ENFP gets a lot of their personal satisfaction from observing the happiness of others, and so is generally determined to please and serve their partners.

A problem area for ENFPs in relationships is their dislike of conflict and sensitivity to criticism. They are perfectionists who believe that any form of criticism is a stab at their character, which is very difficult for them to take. Conflict situations are sources of extreme stress to the ENFP. They have a tendency to brush issues under the rug rather than confront them head-on, if there is likely to be a conflict. They are also prone to "give in" easily in conflict situations, just to end the conflict. They might agree to something which goes against their values just to end the uncomfortable situation. In such cases, the problem is extended and will return at a later time. The ENFP needs to realize that conflict situations are not the end of the world. They are entirely normal, and can be quite helpful for the growth of a relationship. They also need to work on taking criticism for what it is, rather than blowing up any negative comment into an indictment against their entire character.

Generally, the ENFP is a warm and affirming creature who is very interested and able to have an intense, meaningful, close relationship with their mate.

Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, ENFP's natural partner is the INTJ, or the INFJ. ENFP's dominant function of Extraverted Intuition is best matched with a partner whose dominant function is Introverted Intuition.

 

ImWithStupid

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Although two well-developed individuals of any type can enjoy a healthy relationship, ENFP's natural partner is the INTJ, or the INFJ. ENFP's dominant function of Extraverted Intuition is best matched with a partner whose dominant function is Introverted Intuition.
 


Bender and I are INTJ's. Don't get any ideas, bud. :D

 

wez

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There are a couple of difficult relationship areas for the ENFP. The first problem is that many ENFPs have a problem leaving bad relationships. They tend to internalize any problems and take them on their own shoulders, believing that the success or failure of the relationship is their own responsibility. As perfectionists, they don't like to admit defeat, and will stick with bad situations long after they should have left.
Problem? 19 years of ****? No sleep for 6 days.. nervous breakdown.. a week in a psych ward? pffft.. no prob.. Fukkers have no clue what they're talking about.. hahahaha

Wouldn't change 1 minute of it either..

 

wez

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Although.. this is total bullsh t.. In my case anywho...

When they do leave the relationship, they will believe that the failure was their fault, and that there was surely something they could have done to save the relationship.

I know I did everything possible... my final choice.. life/death .. Not sure how being dead could have saved it but whatever... meh.. guess I'm selfish.

 

mercury

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You stuck with it for 19 years... I'd have to say that shows a "problem with leaving it behind" ... wouldn't you?

I'm not judging... I've stayed for about 13 years longer (so far) than I probably should have. Maybe I'll beat your record ;)

And yeah... you've grown on me - kinda like a fungus :p

 

wez

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You stuck with it for 19 years... I'd have to say that shows a "problem with leaving it behind" ... wouldn't you?

Ummmm.... yeah... slightly.. I was being extreeeeemly sarcastic.. hahahaha

I just prefer to see it as a "learning experience".. and it was.. and the reward was worth every minute.. Just needed to get clear to see it.. ;)

I'm not judging... I've stayed for about 13 years longer (so far) than I probably should have. Maybe I'll beat your record ;)

Don't try to beat my record.. please.. <no sarcasm whatsoever>

Go get happy!

And yeah... you've grown on me - kinda like a fungus :p

Awwwww... thanks merc.. You're sweet.. :)

and you've grown on me too.. like a cancer.. :p

 

ToriAllen

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My husband is an ENFP and they can be quite annoying...

as for love:

Loving

For ENFPs, loving is an almost constant state. They are generally involved or in love with someone or something new. ENFPs may have originated the quotation "All the world loves a lover." When falling in love, they explore all the new possibilities in the relationship, and the new person is studied in every way. The ENFP tends to idealize his or her current relationship and will often say that their current one is "the best ever."

It might be argued that each type, when first in love, resembles a garden-variety ENFP, because ENFPs normally behave like people in love. Some of the cultural cliches about falling in love - such as "Falling in love with love," "Head over heels in love," "Love is blind," "All the world loves a lover," and "Throw caution to the wind" - seem to apply to the ENFP. This same boundless affection can be showered upon friends, co-workers, and others. People often feel unconditionally loved by ENFPs, but over time many of these relationships dissipate, as in "When I'm not near the ones I love, I love the ones I'm near."

ENFPs are delightful, enthusiastic partners who are young in spirit; there is rarely a dull moment with them. They readily note their partner's best aspects. They may overlook obvious details and facts about their partners that might cause other types to be more cautious. As relationships progress, ENFPs romanticise their partners and make strong efforts to rationalize any discrepancy between the reality and their "ideal."

When they are in love, they may either overcommit and ignore any unpleasant yet true facts; or they may undercommit, believing that there may be a better love "just around the corner." Therefore, ENFPs may be seen as fickle in their relationships as they search for the "right one."

When and if the flaws in the relationship become too obvious to ENFPs, they may admit defeat, feeling great pain because they have put so much energy into perfecting a particular relationship. When ENFPs are scorned, they overgeneralize about their partners' worst faults. Because ENFPs thrive on new possibilities, when they fall out of love, they rebound quickly.

ENFP - The Visionary

 

wez

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You prolly aint no peach yourself... Your ENFP hubby just makes you Feeeeeeel like you are..

Here's your love profile from that site.. kinda makes you sound like a flippant ***** who walks away when you don't get your way 100% of the time... hahahaha

Anyone but an ENFP woulda left your sorry *** years ago.. :p

I like the profiles on the link you posted on your first reply in the thread.. These have a more negative feel to me..

Loving

For the INTP, love has three distinct phases: falling in, staying in, and getting out. These phases relate to their thinking preference and its need for order and sequence.

An INTP characterized falling in love as a stage of complete loss of rationality that may last a year or less. When an INTP falls in love, he or she falls hard - an all or nothing phenomenon. At this stage, INTPs are likely to be very lively, almost giddy, in their new love. The experience rushes over them and carries them along. They do not structure or control it but simply enjoy and experience it. They do many loving things and they are curious about their loved one and are able to overlook his or her flaws. They may bravely ignore the realities of distance, weather, and time to be with the loved one.

As relationships progress to the staying-in-love phase, INTPs begin to evaluate their structure and form. They may withdraw at this point because they are moving toward their more customary inward style. Outward demonstrations of affection lessen, and the giddy state changes. Interactions are more matter of fact, perhaps even impersonal. INTPs take their commitments to their partner seriously; however, they may not discuss these commitments at any length with their partner or with other people, because their commitments seem so obvious to them.

Falling out of love, which may not always occur, results from an analysis of the real expectations and needs of the relationship. Often an undefined line is crossed that neither partner knows about ahead of time. However, the INTP knows after the line has been crossed, and then the relationship deteriorates or ends. If INTPs recognize their emotions and needs as valid, they are able to sever relationship ties fairly cleanly. However, if they misjudge their own needs and those of their partner, the breakup can be messy, perhaps affecting other aspects of their lives for a long time. If the INTP shares some common interests with the former loved one, the relationship continues but on a different level. When INTPs have a reason to continue relationships, they do.

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wez

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Was lookin' at some of this stuff the other day and saw a site that said Obama was and ENFP..

ENFPs direct their energy towards the outer world of actions and spoken words. They seek to develop new potential, explore new possibilities and create new situations that yield the expectation of something better. They often enjoy work that involves experimentation and variety.

 


What makes an ENFP tick?


 


The Dominant function is the perceptive one of iNtuition. Characteristics associated with this function include:


 


Likes looking at information from a global viewpoint, spotting patterns and relationships, that lead to an understanding of the key issues


 


Focuses more on possibilities for the future than the here-and-now


 


Enjoys change, challenge, and variety


 


focusing the (outer world) iNtuition on ideas and possibilities that relate to people


 


inwardly appreciating the contributions of others, though not expressing it that often.


 


internally rejecting any options that clearly conflict with the ENFP's values - though the rejection might not be expressed or seen to others


 


The classic temperament of an ENFP is Apollonian, or Choleric, for whom a basic driving force is the search for meaning or purpose.


 




Good enough for me.. hahaha

 
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