Where did I ever say the decision was easy?
This has always been the problem with many of you, you have to insert things I never said into my mouth so you have an excuse to flame me because I am none of the things you just claimed I am, why do you guys feel compelled to lie about my possitions on these thing?
So now what? Should I respond to your lie with attacks of my own? This is how this stuff gets out of hand, your taking it too personal and flamming me instead of paying attention to the information. If you question something I offer as a fact concerning abortions simply ask me to back it up, don't call me names just because you do not like what I said. In the last big abortion discussion I proved every one of my stated facts with the most respected source for abortion facts in America and most of the world but still the facts are ignored and I am a bad guy and deserve to be lied about just because I say the facts.
Let me say this again, I do not believe the decision to get an abortion is an easy one, it is horrible that someone would even think that they have to kill a child growing in their womb. I have offered in the past many studies of where it has been proven that most women suffer from their decision to kill their child their entire life and they have many mental issues because of it. But you and most women will never admit that an unwanted pregnancy more often than not is because of irresponsible behaviors "BY BOTH THE MAN AND WOMAN". The only thing that is more severe on the woman is she is the only person who can decide to kill the child. If a man drugs a woman against her will to cause an abortion, that is called murder.
You equate my refusal to call women blameless for unwanted pregnancies as me saying the abortion is no big deal to women, and that is simply wrong.
Again, my point is one of responsibility, the greater responsibility is to not kill to escape taking responsibility for a "choice" already made by both the man and woman to have *** without using any kind of prevention. I am not saying this about all men and women, just the ones who have irresponsible ***. If you do not have irresponsible *** that can lead to unwanted pregnancies, than I am not talking about you, male or female.
Now, I think it was pretty low to try and say I would not be loving to my daughter, this is the kind of thing that I get so frustrated with because I don't do this with other people just because they say something I do not agree with. This sort of personal attack is just not reasonable.
I love my daughter, even if she did have an abortion I would not disown her or reject her as your trying to imply. But she would have made the wrong decision, and like any bad decision humans make we have to learn from them and move foward instead of trying to twist wrong into right under the guise of saving hurt feelings. I would hope I can teach my daughter to have enough self-respect to not make that mistake of an unwanted pregnancy in the first place and if not to teach her the proper response to a mistake is not to kill a baby, but as I said, if she did make several big mistakes like this, I would love her and support her and help her to move foward, not trash her or hate her.
But you are right about one thing, when it comes to responsibility I am not flexible. A person is either responsible for their actions or they are not. I do not give a pass for bad behavior just because someone might get hurt feelings being made to see the truth of their irresponsibility.
Ren,
You took the time to directly call into question my integrity and assign a false motive for my posts, that is a flame.
Instead of making personal commentary about me as a person, why not get involved in the discussion at hand instead?
