My sister said to me today that if I'm in a relationship that I feel like I can't talk to him, I shouldn't be in it to start with, and it really hurts me a lot and it brings on unwanted moodswings with me because yeah, by him telling me there's something wrong with me, i am at the point where as demonstrated by the previous post I'm questioning my ability to make decisions and judge properly between right and wrong within the boundaries between him and me. Like, he is, by zodiac, a Libra while I am a Gemini and he's stubborn and I am more indecisive and that's really conflicting. Sometimes I am ready to say "Hey! Let's be friends just like you've always wanted us to be just as!" but it's my kindness that gets in the way and even my mother has said it, I've been in abusive relationships before and it took me 9 months to break it off with the guy. And like my sister said (and you), I shouldn't be with a guy that makes me feel like I am in a nutshell. Mean, right now, I am having interesting convos with him now about the rise and the fall of Hitler. Like, yes it was only a couple of hours that I had known this guy until we were drunkly making out at a uni party. I even thought at one moment that he was gay....but like there's good things i like about him, he's ******* random like I am, we love having interesting debates like how apparently australia is a dictatorship because of it's voting regulations, we socialise fine, he doesn't physically put me down, like he doesn't call me fat (like previous bfs have done) or anything like that and he only bags me out when he tries to cheer me up.
Peterdea - she has someone's just gotta bump it up I remember seeing it "Ask Allie" it was called. I just didn't want to bump it up that's all.