Gray~Gal
Well-Known Member
- Joined
- Aug 5, 2005
You ever see a family where a husband goes to work all day.....a regular 9-5 job and makes all the money and his wife makes the rules?
Or maybe it the other way around, Mom works her ass off and come home to take care of the kids and cook dinner but dad with his part time job makes the decisions in the relationship. In our family, my husband is the bread maker...he makes the money. I stay home (his request) take care of our 4 children and clean, make dinner and pay the bills so they get out on time.
When we first got together, he thought he should make the rules and that i should "OBEY" those rules...HAHA Guess he had never met a girl like me....I had to set it straight but we eventually agreed, I make most of the decisions....I do everything but bring home the money....I spit on the kids and make sure he is satisfied and make sure we have a great home and fun, I make the decisions...day to day things. If its big we discuss it but usually he likes me making the deceiding(sp) factor. He says he likes me happy..lol
But i think he is just being smart and avoiding arguement......SO who runs your ****...??
Or maybe it the other way around, Mom works her ass off and come home to take care of the kids and cook dinner but dad with his part time job makes the decisions in the relationship. In our family, my husband is the bread maker...he makes the money. I stay home (his request) take care of our 4 children and clean, make dinner and pay the bills so they get out on time.
When we first got together, he thought he should make the rules and that i should "OBEY" those rules...HAHA Guess he had never met a girl like me....I had to set it straight but we eventually agreed, I make most of the decisions....I do everything but bring home the money....I spit on the kids and make sure he is satisfied and make sure we have a great home and fun, I make the decisions...day to day things. If its big we discuss it but usually he likes me making the deceiding(sp) factor. He says he likes me happy..lol
But i think he is just being smart and avoiding arguement......SO who runs your ****...??