I know it's a painful subject, and I mean no disrespect, but given that she has been / is in bad health and the doctors would SEE that on her record, dont you think it's possible she might be released because they are letting her go home to pass on comfortably? When you consider the bed shortage, and they think there's nothing more they can do for her, it would go some way to explaining their motives - not saying I AGREE with them, it's just the dumbass way the health system operates.
With the Daniel thing, well, generally you know how I feel on that subject, but when you say he's offering to change and says he doesn't know how in essence without being told, I would think for all your arguements before you broke up and he STILL can't figure it out then really, he's never going to. Any 'change' would be temporary to lull you into a false sense of security before things slip back to the way they were, the only difference being he will now use the 'I tried to change but (insert lame excuse here' line and more than likely you'll fall for it. I know you say you don't love him but as much as i love you Sarah, I mean no disrespect to you either when I say, I think you are the kind of person that doesn't feel 'complete' without having someone/anyone beside you. Anyway, we've had this discussion before, and I know I said I wasn't going to bring it up anymore, but I just dont want to see you get hurt, period. Anyway, all the best for that.
And as for being sick I hope you get better. Have a safe trip back when you go *hugs*