Cutting?

[Minzara]

I argee with spike for the most part, though i thought it was really rude the way he presented it, I know people can deal with things better the others, I am one of those people, My life has completely sucked, if u have read some of my post about it, and i have never drank, smoke, cut or anything to reveil myself of the pain, i just stood tall, and dealt with it, and learn from it, i didnt run away from it, which is what i think cutting kindof is, u cant deal with the pain so u cut...which gives u more pain... which i dont understand either...thats it for my half selfish opinion....

underline fact, that everyone needs to know, is people are different, and thats it, we might get annoyed by what the other does, but thats them, it whats make them who they are. Calling them names wont do anything..... lol....

 

[stupidsoul1]

I don't see the point in cutting, like there is always another alternative...im not going to say its stupid because people who cut do have their reasons if it is for attention or not.

I know i have personally thought about it..i still have a mark on my wrist where i was scraping something sharp across my wrist without even realising the other week... so maybe some cutters dont even realise what they are doing sometimes.

 

[rebelforlife]

STUPID SOUL YOU **** I HATE YOU *****

 

[stupidsoul1]

why thank you?? i feel kind of loved??

 

[Minzara]

Well, I say we need to stop making Cutting threads... they all have led to fights so far

 

[uwantme2b]

spike91232004, please may I suggest you come more openminded to people. Self harm is a response to emotional pain and is a coping strategy. I agree, it's not a very good one, but please don't judge.

Rebelforlife should be banned. He is only here to cause trouble.

Please can't we all calm down? There's no need to fight, if you have a point to make it can be made calmly and politely.

 

[LSUTiger]

I still firmly believe that there is nothing in anybody's life that could ever happen to them, that should cause them to cut themselves. It just doesnt exist.

 

[x_Hybrid_Angel_x]

Yeah i stopped the drugs because i was scared of what might happen to me.

Spike i understand why you think its pointless but i dont really think that starting on people who cut is really going to help them seeing as this is a place that some people come for help.

 

[Sygy]

I still firmly believe that there is nothing in anybody's life that could ever happen to them' date=' that should cause them to cut themselves. It just doesnt exist.[/quote']
your probably a very emotionally strong person. but no everyone can cope with problems which they have in their lives.

 

[Hybrid Soldier]

I still firmly believe that there is nothing in anybody's life that could ever happen to them' date=' that should cause them to cut themselves. It just doesnt exist.[/quote']have you ever punched a wall out of anger?

 

[Minzara]

I argee with LSU, but thats my selfish opinion, I gone though some really bad things in my life, and i havent done any of that stuff, i have punch a wall once, but that was because I didnt want to punch my friend out of anger, i wasnt trying to reveal pain or anything, i just didnt want to hurt a good friend, who ****** me off, and i did that at 15.

 

[linkinpark91393]

I cut only when I'm really mad or depressed which doesnt happen that often since its summer....

 

[LSUTiger]

have you ever punched a wall out of anger?

I prefer punching the actual person. But I see the point you are trying to make, but there is a fallacy with your argument. When people punch walls, other people, etc., they are not doing it to inflict the pain on themselves. Example; people don't say "I'm so mad, I'm gonna puch this wall to hurt my hand." They do it to vent the anger, which is fine. That still doesn't mean harming yourself is an acceptable alternative.

 

[keza]

its not acceptible its a way someone can control an uncontrolable situation around them...no ones said its the right thing to do...

 

[spike91232004]

Hmm... It appears too me all the Newbs are getting extremly ****** off by my post... Hmm...interesting... Just putting my two cents though. Don't take it personal. I have a right to my own opinions.

Vash: Please do not do that again Spike, that was uncalled for.

 

[Hyper]

Hmm... It appears too me all the Newbs are getting extremly ****** off by my post... Hmm...interesting... Just putting my two cents though. Don't take it personal. I have a right to my own opinions.

mmk, apparently i'm a newb. anyways, your'e right, you do have a right to your own opinions. however, you do not have a right to present them in an offensive way.

 

[uwantme2b]

I prefer punching the actual person. But I see the point you are trying to make' date=' but there is a fallacy with your argument. When people punch walls, other people, etc., they are not doing it to inflict the pain on themselves. Example; people don't say "I'm so mad, I'm gonna puch this wall to hurt my hand." They do it to vent the anger, which is fine. That still doesn't mean harming yourself is an acceptable alternative.[/quote']
But self-harm is a way of venting anger too.

And I agree with Hyper. Spike, of course you have a right to express your opinions but you don't have to be rude about it. Other viewpoints than yours may be acceptable as well, and because you personally don't like cutting, doesn't mean it's actually wrong.

Who are you referring to as noobs? Hyper is not a noob... neither am I... I'm not sure who you're talking to. :/

 

[x_Hybrid_Angel_x]

Im new but i wasnt getting ****** off, i was just saying...

 

[cmlp]

Hmm... It appears too me all the Newbs are getting extremly ****** off by my post... Hmm...interesting... Just putting my two cents though. Don't take it personal. I have a right to my own opinions.

Hmm...I'm not a "Newb" and I'm extremly ******. And that doesn't happen to ******' often. Yes, you have a right to your opinion, but what you said, harsh, man. I'm glad you're not a cutter. I'm very happy for you, but it's not all about a boyfriend/girlfriend dumping the person who cut. (Inless they are drama kings or queens.) There's way more to it. Alot of cutters come from broken homes, a childhood without happiness, an event that took away from the person (like rape or seeing a murder), or the fact the person can't deal with the stress and pain. If they are depressed, they don't see a freakin' point in life and living a life, but can't kill themselfs. You really need to get the facts before you go bashing something.

And what's your deal with emo/goth?! What did we ever do to you? We deal with OUR problems OUR own way.

Note, I'm not fighting, I'm just..what do you say.... Adding my two cents.

 

[LSUTiger]

There's way more to it. Alot of cutters come from broken homes, a childhood without happiness, an event that took away from the person (like rape or seeing a murder), or the fact the person can't deal with the stress and pain. If they are depressed, they don't see a freakin' point in life and living a life, but can't kill themselfs.

Sorry, still not a valid reason to cut yourself...not even close.