Hello deary... I'm here... where are you??? *waiting patiently*
Hey baby, How are you... am writing a big post now so will let you read when I finish.
Hail to the Gods and Goddesses of LPF!!!
Hope all of you are well, I am fine and waiting to come home to Toowoomba.
THE FUNERAL SERVICE FOR DAD (Yesterday, Monday 1.00pm est Australian Time 23/05/05)
I got up early (5.30 am) The roos (Kangaroos) were gone by then and I went out for a smoke and a cuppa joe (Yeah still smoking) Had been up til 1.30 am earlier in the morning. The Sulfer crested cockatoos came in so I fed them and did some writing on my fan fic (hehehe Ravyn is in for some good reading once I type it up) and wrote a couple of poems, one is called "WHY AM I CHAINED TO THIS BEAUTY."(will put it in my journal at a later date) and sat talking to my sister Lynda and Hazel (My aunty ho has told me I am too old to call her Aunty) and my cousin Andy. Slowly we were all upand things were happening. My cousin Les (Sexy Devil), came over for a natter and we all had some fun with the hose (washing cars for the funerary parade) Lets just say I am the only one who was not water logged *S******s*. anyway my eldest sister Janet and her boys turned up. Man, my nephew Justin is one hot tamale. Cow boy with the ute etc, takes me back to my own young days working in the bush, and looking good. I decided to get dressed and then Andrea wanted to get away from all the people and Les our cousin left. So andrea and I walked down to the dam and looked out over the water. We talked quietly and Andy broke down and cried, because all of the ******** and fighting between Mum and her sisters (I can't wait to get away). andy is my closest cousing, it gets to her sometimes, because Her dad died three years ago. So yesterday had some ups and downs.
We left for the funeral and I got there before Mum so I sat with my sister Janet who had arrived because her son and husband were two of the pall bearers (coffin carriers). I sat with her and then Mum and my other sisters turned up. There were well over two hundred people who had turned up. I was totally amazed, and realised how many people dad was affiliated with.
My dad carried the olympic torch in the relay race to Melbourne for the 1956 Olympic games. We had seven other torch barers there. He played football for the Cairns Ivanhoes football team, and later coached the under 18's for fifteen years, there were past and current members (Who all wore jersys and formed a guard of honor). He was a world champion Darts player, played against England in the late 60's early 70's. There were members of the cairns darts association there as well. Former bosses who had worked with dad, were there to pay their respects, as well as former Navy personel who had known him. Then there were friends who had grown up with dad, and needed to pay their respects, as well as near and distant relations. (Black White and Brindle, I am telling you, I never knew I was related to so many black fellas). As well as all the locals, and all the golfers, from as far away as Brisbane and Darwin. Man what a crowd.
I saw so many friends and old mates who I used to hang with. Yeah it was like a kind of reunion. Blue said a few words (one of Dad's closest mates of late, and he made everyone cry when he talked about Dad's integrity, honesty, loyalty and his love of golf and the up holding of the rules.
I then read "The Greatest Man In The World." Everyone cried. people were bawling everywhere, I guess I do have a talent for hallmark (Hey Ravyn!!)
We held his wake out at the golfcourse and I was almost charged for my drink. "The ******* ******" one woman said "Wouldn't know a Francis girl if he fell over one." she then turned to me and said "Lynda do you remember me we went to school together at Ravenshoe high school." I ****** myself laughing and said to this lady who I knew, "Sorry annette, I'm Jeanne, Lynda is over there." In the end I got my cruiser (Raspberry yummy) and walked up to the last Tee Off that Dad ever stood at. I sat there in the silence except for the wind and black cockatoos in the distance; and cried and listened to "It's Easier To Run." I later went to the 2 furlong mark where he died and said good bye.
I had two more cruisers and sort of was really ****** and waited for life to pass me by. My cousin Les was really cool, sat with me and we chatted, He and my sister lynda have invited me (And the Delectable Ravynlee) up there this time next year... I actually have a job waiting for me as soon as I get up there. (Yes I am chomping at the bit!!)
We got home and we got a fire going in a half of a fortyfour galleon drum, and all ate Hazel's cocoanut curry, and got ****** and something else. I will not say anymore.
Anyway we leave tomorrow morning and head back. So I will soon be back home with Ravyn.
Love you all and remember "That food was mighty spicey!!!" :thumbsup: