RoyalOrleans
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I believe parenting, single or married, is a badge of honor in itself.
That's all I have to say on this matter.
That's all I have to say on this matter.
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Amen to that. Preach on.RoyalOrleans said:I believe parenting, single or married, is a badge of honor in itself.
That's all I have to say on this matter.
angie said:Amen to that. Preach on.
RoyalOrleans said:I believe parenting, single or married, is a badge of honor in itself.
That's all I have to say on this matter.
Cogito Ergo Sum said:LICK MY HAIRY BALLS, AND THEN SUCK ON MY ASSHOLE FOR GOOD MEASURE.
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Go slap yourself twice for being so stupid.
TheJenn88 said:Hugo, your argument would have ten times the credibility if you seriously considered one factor that you're missing.
Socioeconomic status & environment versus the actuality of just a single parent.
Problems in child-behaviour is not because of the number of parents they do or don't have. Here, let me point out to you some very simple connections to be made:
Single-parent + bad environment = messed kid
Single-parent + good environment = good kid
Two-parent + bad environment = messed kid
Two-parent + good environment = good kid
Now, to draw conclusions, you can see that the only common factor in "messed" kids is a bad environment (which may encompass wealth/lack of, education, bad parenting, whichever).
I'm all for you saying that bad socioeconomic status is a leading cause in early pregnancies, or nonmarital pregnancies. Well, not so much a cause, but a common factor, because it is true. The less fortunate an environment seems to be, the more negative things people produce from it. However, what you are arguing is that because a kid is raised by a single parent, they are a messed kid.
"Nonmarital childbearing" isn't really an issue so much as the environment it is taking place in. It's true that just because a good environment is in place, that's not to say that a bad apple won't turn out, but work with me. I'm generalizing the issue.
Hugo, I agree that single-parenting is a problem, but only because it is most likely to occur in environments that are less than favourable.
hugo said:...blah blah blah...
...two parents tend to do a better job then one...but 16 year olds having children out of wedlock should definitely be discouraged...A upper income family that gets divorced can use other resources and, of course, the non-custodial parent can remain a strong influence in a child's life...Currently our government subsidizes the bastardization of America...That needs to stop.
hugo said:"The sole end for which mankind are warranted, individually or collectively, in interfering with the liberty of action of any of their number is self-protection. The only purpose, for which power can be rightfully exercised over any member of a civilized community against his will, is to prevent harm to others. His own good, either physical or moral, is not a sufficient warrant." — John Stuart Mill, On Liberty, 1859.
builder said:I'm not so sure he "wishes to interfere" CES. I think he's creating more strawmen for the sake of distraction.
I trust hugo-a-gogo about as far as I could drop-kick a sack of spuds.
TheJenn88 said:Hugo, your argument would have ten times the credibility if you seriously considered one factor that you're missing.
Socioeconomic status & environment versus the actuality of just a single parent.
Problems in child-behaviour is not because of the number of parents they do or don't have. Here, let me point out to you some very simple connections to be made:
Single-parent + bad environment = messed kid
Single-parent + good environment = good kid
Two-parent + bad environment = messed kid
Two-parent + good environment = good kid
Now, to draw conclusions, you can see that the only common factor in "messed" kids is a bad environment (which may encompass wealth/lack of, education, bad parenting, whichever).
I'm all for you saying that bad socioeconomic status is a leading cause in early pregnancies, or nonmarital pregnancies. Well, not so much a cause, but a common factor, because it is true. The less fortunate an environment seems to be, the more negative things people produce from it. However, what you are arguing is that because a kid is raised by a single parent, they are a messed kid.
"Nonmarital childbearing" isn't really an issue so much as the environment it is taking place in. It's true that just because a good environment is in place, that's not to say that a bad apple won't turn out, but work with me. I'm generalizing the issue.
Hugo, I agree that single-parenting is a problem, but only because it is most likely to occur in environments that are less than favourable.
Cogito Ergo Sum said:Hmm...
Put this rant in context with your beloved "Signature"... You wish to interfere don't you?
hugo said:It is government taking money from responsible peaople [sic] and giving it to irresponsible people that propagates illegitimacy and poverty.
Hugo said:Wanna reduce poverty...stop paying people to have kids they can't support. Basic rule in economics: subsidize something you get more of it.
hugo said:You are actually half right. What you are missing is the vicious cycle.
hugo said:Wanna reduce poverty...stop paying people to have kids they can't support. Basic rule in economics: subsidize something you get more of it.
TheJenn88 said:Actually, since you seemed to have missed my whole post, I'll reiterate.
Bad environment = spawning of bad kid.
Here, let me loop it for you.
Bad environment = bad kid = bad kid creating bad environment for others = bad environment = bad kid = bad kid creating bad environment for others need I go on?
You see, I touched on the viscious cycle issue. Fortunately, it doesn't take a half-assed idiot to understand the concept of the "ripple" effect, or cause and effect, etc. etc. You seem to know the concept, just don't miss it