Well, I was looking through the shout box log and came across some conversations that were before my time. I'm not mentioning any names because I don't believe in calling people out but I saw someone messing with my girl, Chi.
She was being "dared" to post her pictures and what not. Once she offered a link to her online photo album, she was called things like "Ugly Mexican" (I happen to think Chi is gorgeous). This very same person at one time asked if I had any pics online but I ignored her request. Was not interested in a GF beauty contest.
Now, onto the topic of discussion. With the influx of new females at GF, I have noticed they are not offered a warm welcome by existing female members. They are flamed without cause and judged by their pictures. Well, let me say this, how insecure these girls must be to feel these new female members are here to steal their male prey. Why do forums always end up becoming a beauty contest among the insecure women folk?
Second, how do you feel about meeting members of the opposite sex on forums? Though I find it somewhat pathetic, it does have it's benefits. Stereotypically, men just are not the type to willingly share their feelings. However, the men on forums (not just GF) are already there to discuss their philosophies and beliefs. They already show themselves to be open to their emotions and thoughts.
As a women, do you find this beneficial as you might find a man to be interesting yet this same man might not have even turned your head if you saw him walking down the street? Men, do you like the idea that this gives you the chance to really know a women's heart and mind instead of things immediately being about sex?
Question Three: What is up with these GF personas? What is the point of exchaning your ideas if you are only putting on an act? When I spoke with a member from here privately, they told me to "drop the persona this isn't GF." I corrected this individual and said I was this crazy everywhere I go.
But seriously, what is the point of being something your not?
Thoughts? Feelings? Any go-to-hell, Phantom's?
She was being "dared" to post her pictures and what not. Once she offered a link to her online photo album, she was called things like "Ugly Mexican" (I happen to think Chi is gorgeous). This very same person at one time asked if I had any pics online but I ignored her request. Was not interested in a GF beauty contest.
Now, onto the topic of discussion. With the influx of new females at GF, I have noticed they are not offered a warm welcome by existing female members. They are flamed without cause and judged by their pictures. Well, let me say this, how insecure these girls must be to feel these new female members are here to steal their male prey. Why do forums always end up becoming a beauty contest among the insecure women folk?
Second, how do you feel about meeting members of the opposite sex on forums? Though I find it somewhat pathetic, it does have it's benefits. Stereotypically, men just are not the type to willingly share their feelings. However, the men on forums (not just GF) are already there to discuss their philosophies and beliefs. They already show themselves to be open to their emotions and thoughts.
As a women, do you find this beneficial as you might find a man to be interesting yet this same man might not have even turned your head if you saw him walking down the street? Men, do you like the idea that this gives you the chance to really know a women's heart and mind instead of things immediately being about sex?
Question Three: What is up with these GF personas? What is the point of exchaning your ideas if you are only putting on an act? When I spoke with a member from here privately, they told me to "drop the persona this isn't GF." I corrected this individual and said I was this crazy everywhere I go.
But seriously, what is the point of being something your not? Thoughts? Feelings? Any go-to-hell, Phantom's?
