you. are. dense.
Who's complaining that you get involved in the attacks? Many, many of us are guilty of it- INCLUDING YOU. Part of the issue here is that you attack, and then pretend that you don't attack.
You, too, are a master of the flame. So quit acting like you're not.
You are also a master of the chicken-sh!t excuses:
"I'm not gonna post a pic, cause you will be mean."
"I've got lots of friends that pm me in secret, but I won't tell you who they are and they won't get involved in any way publicly."
"I have my own board that I want to give you the members to, but not if you aren't gonna do things my way."
"My friends, who aren't members here and won't come here to verify anything I say, say you need professional help."
again:
you. are. dense.
own your sh!t man. own it. You just about had it there, claiming that you attacked, but then you pussed out and backpedaled faster than Joe Wilson. own it. admit you do it too.
Then maybe we can get that support group going.