Is she worth all this pain?

sum1

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ur killin urself over some girl who doesnt love u and having fun with some other guy!!while ur just sitting here waisting ur time crying and regreting that u love her!!

i really dunno what to say!! im not good at helping!! u know what! i think she should see what u wrote about her here!! ahhh i dunno i just dont know!

 

DarkShadow

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I don't have many guy friends...heck I dont have many friends at all....Abby is probably my only real friend...as well as sera. I do have a few other "friends" but I'm not so sure about them.
 

DarkShadow

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ur killin urself over some girl who doesnt love u and having fun with some other guy!!while ur just sitting here waisting ur time crying and regreting that u love her!!i really dunno what to say!! im not good at helping!! u know what! i think she should see what u wrote about her here!! ahhh i dunno i just dont know!
maybe when she gets online I;ll give her the address to this thread...

 

LPGotLinkinPark

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Well, I know what you mean about not having many other friends. You gotta find someone though. Or you need to find some way to not think of Abby as loving her. Some how you gotta think of Abby as a really good friend and nothing more.
 

lpunderground

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please dont hurt urself for someone who is hurting u. I kno u've heard tis enough times already but if u need to talk u can i m me.
 

Minzara

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i've had the SAME exact situation happen to me, I just moved on, no point in doing this to yourself....
 

o0SugaxNxSpice0o

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I actually read all 7 pages of this =O

Clearly you are obsessed o_0

She may be perfect and everything, but there has to be a fault with her if she's putting you through all of this.

I think you're doing the right thing if you tell her that you no longer want to be friends with her, no matter how hard it is. Look what you're turning in to! *No offense with this*. But you're like wanting to commit suicide, and wanting to use violence and stuff. Let's just say this ain't normal lol. It's not nessasarily her fault. It's up to you what becomes of this. Pick yourself up from the ground, and move on.

My sister has this badge - "You can't make someone love you - You can only stalk and hope for the best" lol. I'm not saying you're stalking, but nothing good has come out of this.

In the end, you would rather have a gf who loved you and cared for you don't you? If she doesn't feel the same way as you do, then there's no point in forcing something that just wasn't meant to be. Do you get what I mean? It'll just be a one way relationship, and neither one of you will be happy. It sucks, and life is a *****, but you gotta get over it. You're like what? 14 / 15? Sounds corny but you've got your whole life ahead of you o_0. Don't let this 1 girl bring you down with so much pain. Be more positive and optimistic =D

(Sorry if I rambled on and this didn't help.)

 

mikelover

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Thanks...You helped a little...lol
But this one girl is my entire world. I know that sounds scary but it's true.
i dont think it sounds scary but try really hard to move if not it's okay ;) if u need any help u no where to ask me

 

DarkShadow

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I just had the perfect chance to do it online but I chickened out....I don't know if I can do this without breaking down...I can't do it at school.....I'll start crying and people will make fun of me...I have to do it online or on the phone...it's the only way...unless I can hold in my tears....I'm really freaking out about this...
 

woodyloveslinkin

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I actually read all 7 pages of this =OClearly you are obsessed o_0

She may be perfect and everything, but there has to be a fault with her if she's putting you through all of this.

I think you're doing the right thing if you tell her that you no longer want to be friends with her, no matter how hard it is. Look what you're turning in to! *No offense with this*. But you're like wanting to commit suicide, and wanting to use violence and stuff. Let's just say this ain't normal lol. It's not nessasarily her fault. It's up to you what becomes of this. Pick yourself up from the ground, and move on.

My sister has this badge - "You can't make someone love you - You can only stalk and hope for the best" lol. I'm not saying you're stalking, but nothing good has come out of this.

In the end, you would rather have a gf who loved you and cared for you don't you? If she doesn't feel the same way as you do, then there's no point in forcing something that just wasn't meant to be. Do you get what I mean? It'll just be a one way relationship, and neither one of you will be happy. It sucks, and life is a *****, but you gotta get over it. You're like what? 14 / 15? Sounds corny but you've got your whole life ahead of you o_0. Don't let this 1 girl bring you down with so much pain. Be more positive and optimistic =D

(Sorry if I rambled on and this didn't help.)


I agree to that 100%

 
i kinda know what your going through.... i was in love with this girl, still am... and she turned up the other day and, well stuff happened and it screwed me around, but i saw her later on and just said, "look i'm sorry, we can't keep doing this, it's over.... bye"

and i know how hard that was, i mean, i was in physical pain because of it, and she's not really my friend! you can do it mate, just be strong.

 

DarkShadow

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I'm going to tell Abby straight up that I can't be friends with her anymore...I'm really freaking out about it but I'm going to do it as much as I don't want to....

although...twighlightcrimson7 (heather) says that I should only do what I think is right....and honestly, I don't know what I think...I still love her...I mean, I don't see why I can't just wait until the end of the school year....I'll never see her again after then anyway....but I don't want to keep getting my heartbroken everyday....Ugh this is so confusing.... :(

 

DarkShadow

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Ok...I have the perfect chance to tell her right now...she's at her friends house and theyre online...but it's her birthday.....should I do it or not?

Ugh I don't even want to do it at all....why does my life have to be so confusing and painful?

 

DarkShadow

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Well she just signed off and I didn't tell her....I think I'll be able to do it tomorrow at lunch, but I really really dont want to...
 

LPGotLinkinPark

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If you don't think you can do it at school, don't do it. Just tell her either online or on the phone. Those are more private I think. And when you tell her, don't just be like I can't be friends with you anymore. Tell her how you're feeling and what it's causing you. Just be honest. Be strong, and hang in there. You can do it.
 

LPGotLinkinPark

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Well, do you think that you could put up with her not liking you until the end of the school year? Cause like you said before, once you go to different high schools, you won't see her again anyway.
 
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